Not surprisingly, Tony Laplume was not happy about my July 4th post. Actually it's a little surprising because he noticed it like immediately after it posted so I wonder if he has a Google alert on his name or something? Anyway, there was something he pointed out that I had not realized before.
At the end of 2013, I closed down this blog for a little while. In 2014 I did a few guest posts on his Comics Reader blog. And then I read his terrible book Pale Moonlight and said it was terrible on Goodreads and Amazon. Then out of spite he kicked me off his blog. I mentioned it in this article.
As he pointed out on July 4th, this was pretty much the same thing that happened with the Andrew Leon Debacle(patent pending) only I was the Andrew Leon in this case. Oh the irony! The shame! The hypocrisy!
Or to put a more positive spin on it, this was why, perhaps unconsciously, I had such a visceral reaction when Andrew Leon did it, because I had done it myself and knew how destructive it was. To a certain type of person, something like that can feel like a betrayal and cause a lot of hurt feelings that linger to this very day.
(Though in the case of the Andrew Leon Debacle(trademark pending) Sandra Almazan never really gave a shit nor was she involved while I fought a futile proxy war. It was basically like if the Trojan War had been fought with Western civilization tearing itself apart while Helen of Troy were on a beach sipping mai tais somewhere. It was stupid and pointless--but I won't say I was wrong, only that I was wrong to bother with it.)
Part of being a grown up (a part most people seem to have forgotten) is owning up to mistakes. And it was a mistake to do that to Tony, as the Andrew Leon Debacle(copyright 2015 by me) later proved. I shouldn't have done it and I'm sorry. As acts of contrition, I pulled the negative review of Pale Moonlight from Amazon and changed it to 5 stars on Goodreads because I don't know how to delete it there.
I'm sure he will cynically believe this is just me trying to get on his good side. But really I violated my own standards by doing that and so I should own up to that and try to correct it. You know what they say: if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
2 comments:
I think you did the right thing here. Also...the mentioned debacle was 7 years ago. Wow...
I had no idea all that happened. I mean, I knew there was a falling out between you and Andrew, but didn’t know anything else. Anyway, you did do the right thing here.
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